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106 Mich. L. Rev. 189 (2007-2008)
Friends with Benefits

handle is hein.journals/mlr106 and id is 211 raw text is: FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS?
Laura A. Rosenbury*
Family law has long been intensely interested in certain adult inti-
mate relationships, namely marriage and marriage-like relationships,
and silent about other adult intimate relationships, namely friend-
ship. This Article examines the effects of that focus, illustrating how it
frustrates one of the goals embraced by most family law scholars
over the past forty years: the achievement of gender equality, within
the family and without. Part I examines the current scope of family
law doctrine and scholarship, highlighting the ways in which the
home is still the organizing structure for family. Despite calls for in-
creased legal recognition of diverse families, few scholars have
considered whether family law should recognize care provided out-
side of the home, and no scholar has considered whether family law
should recognize the care provided and received by friends. Part II
turns to friendship, considering the practices of people who self-
identify as friends and the ways that such practices are already influ-
enced by the law's maintenance of a divide between friendship and
family. That divide amounts to state support of the types of domestic
caregiving that traditionally played vital roles in maintaining state-
supported patriarchy and that still largely follow gendered patterns
today. Family law thereby reinforces traditional gender role expecta-
tions rather than alleviating them. Part III then explores how
simultaneous legal recognition of friendship and family could lead to
greater opportunities to structure life free from state-supported gen-
der role expectations. By supporting more pluralistic personal
*   Associate Professor of Law, Washington University School of Law. For insightful sugges-
tions, critiques, and encouragement, I thank Kathy Abrams, Muneer Ahmad, Jane Aiken, K.T. Albiston,
Susan Appleton, Sam Bagenstos, Ken Bamberger, Rick Banks, Michele Benedetto, Danielle Berti, Eric
Biber, Liz Blackwell, Grace Blumberg, Sam Buell, Pat Cain, Maggi Carfield, Richard Craswell,
Mariano-Florentino Cuellar, Anne Dailey, Sharon Dolovich, Elizabeth Emens, Barbara Flagg, Barbara
Fried, Amanda Frost, Deborah Gitin, Dan Goldner, Jordan Greenhall, Tom Grey, Adam Hirsch,
Rebecca Hollander-Blumoff, Pam Howlett, Emily Hughes, Darren Hutchinson, Michele Jaffe, Anne
Joseph, Nalini Kotamraju, Ethan Leib, Adrienne Lockie, Gerald Lopez, Martha McCluskey, Martha
Minow, Jennifer Mnookin, Rachel Moran, Melissa Murray, David Oppenheimer, Nancy Polikoff, John
Pottow, Lauren Rabin, Neil Richards, Jennifer Rothman, Russell Robinson, Ezra Rosser, Margo
Schlanger, Elizabeth Schlesinger, Ann Shalleck, Seana Shiffrin, Steve Sugarman, Rachel Tiven, Molly
Van Houweling, Kim Yuracko, and Noah Zatz. I also thank faculty workshop particpants at American
University's Washington College of Law, Florida State University College of Law, and Golden Gate
University School of Law, as well as the members of the Legal Theory Workshop at Stanford Law
School and the Legal Theory Workshop at UCLA School of Law. Finally, I thank Dean Kent Syverud
for generous research support. I may be reached at lrosenbury@wustl.edu.

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