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48 Fam. Ct. Rev. 91 (2010)
HELPING ALIENATED CHILDREN WITH FAMILY BRIDGES: PRACTICE, RESEARCH, AND THE PURSUIT OF HUMBITION

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  HELPING ALIENATED CHILDREN WITH FAMILY BRIDGES:
PRACTICE, RESEARCH, AND THE PURSUIT OF HUMBITION

                         Richard  A. Warshak  and Mark  R. Otis


This article briefly summarizes and responds to feedback offered by Joan Kelly regarding Family Bridges: A
Workshop for Troubled and Alienated Parent-Child RelationshipsTM. We emphasize principles that promote an
educational atmosphere, as opposed to a therapeutic one, and the court's role in contributing to successful
interventions with severely alienated children. Among the considerations discussed are: working with favored
parents, economic comparisons of Family Bridges with counseling approaches, modifying the program for use in
prevention and with milder cases of alienation, and issues related to training additional team leaders and
conducting outcome research.

Keywords: alienated children, alienation, child custody, divorce, estrangement, Family Bridges, parental
          alienation, pathological alienation, reintegration, reunification





   Working  in an  emerging  area of practice requires a delicate balance of courage and
caution-courage   to pursue new paths, caution to ensure the well-being of those we serve.
This balance  is expressed through  the virtue of humbition: a fusion  of humility and
ambition  (Warshak,  2002, 2007). Applied  to the field of healing disrupted parent-child
relationships, humbition allows social scientists and practitioners to balance an ambitious
application, extrapolation, and expansion of available knowledge,  experience, materials,
and  procedures with  an acceptance of realistic limits to our ability to help parents and
children manage  the dynamics  of alienation.
   In the field of divorce and custody research, Joan Kelly is a model of humbition. She
offers a balanced perspective on her own original empirical contributions (Kelly & Emery,
2003) and assertively draws on the literature and her experience as a clinician and mediator,
both to inform current practice and to advocate long-term research that, while ambitious,
is feasible and would enhance the quality of services to families undergoing divorce (Kelly
&  Johnston, 2005).
   In her commentary  to Warshak  (20 10a), Kelly has done it again. She accurately captures
the essence of the principles, goals, structure, and content of Family Bridges: A Workshop
for Troubled and Alienated Parent-Child RelationshipsM   (Family Bridges); she articulates
several essential concerns; and she provides the outline of a blueprint for an ambitious
project that would respond  to such concerns to the benefit of the families with alienated
children. This article briefly summarizes and replies to Kelly's concerns, all of which we
have spent many  hours pondering  as Family Bridges  evolved.




Correspondence: warshak@att.net


FAMILY COURT REVIEW, Vol. 48 No. 1, January 2010 91-97
c 2010 Association of Family and Conciliation Courts

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