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58 Fam. Ct. Rev. 525 (2020)
The Application of the Polyvagal Theory to High Conflict Co-Parenting Cases

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        THE APPLICATION OF THE POLYVAGAL THEORY TO HIGH

                            CONFLICT CO-PARENTING CASES




                   Rebecca   Bailey, Deborah Dana, Elizabeth Bailey, and Frank Davis



Families, litigants, lawyers, advisors embroiled in cases of complex divorce with child contact issues, manage many
stressors at once. Participants involved with these types of cases are often exhausted and burned-out from the long-term
battles of prolonged litigation. The inability to problem-solve or even communicate effectively reflects the chaos and trau-
matic stress of the experience and can be seen as a hallmark of this population. When people are consistently stressed,
there is a breakdown of communication skills that can create an immunity to receiving help from any direction. Often all
parties involved appear to be both hyper-alert to potential threat, and hyper-reactive to one another: no one feels safe. Ste-
phen Porges' Polyvagal Theory is premised on the idea that neuroception plays a key role in the nervous system's ability
to assess danger in the environment. Neuroception is a neurophysiological response that does not involve cognitive
processing. When  cognitive processing is not involved, the result may lead to misinterpretation of, and an inability to
accurately assess situations: executive functioning including rational thinking and communication skills are lost to physio-
logical response. Rather than evaluating families and individuals involved in the aforementioned complex divorce cases
through the lens of pathology, Polyvagal Theory explains their behavior as an adaptive stress reaction. Utilizing Polyvagal
Theory offers a promising path to treatment with these families and diminishing the poor communication and the height-
ened emotion, assisting practitioners in understanding the impact of neurobiological response in managing stress and
trauma. Applying Polyvagal Theory to court involved populations can help both litigants and practitioners recognize the
role of the autonomic nervous system, providing the opportunity to understand, to self-regulate, and to improve communi-
cation and decision making.

Key Points for the Family Court Community:
    *  Separation and divorce.
    *  The impact of Parent/Child contact problems in high-conflict divorce and separation.
    *  The impact of high conflict co-parenting cases on family law and mental health professionals.
    *  Interventions: Current practice Polyvagal theory.
    *  Polyvagal informed therapy.
    *  Effects of polyvagal approach and self regulation.
    *  Managing  physiological response from a cognitive perspective.
    *  Clinical setting and polyvagal theory.
    *  Family therapy and polyvagal theory.
    *  Experiential framework and polyvagal theory.
    *  *Equine assisted therapy, polyvagal perspectives and alternatives.
    *  Processing chaos and grief.
    *  Other opportunities for making connection.
    *  Implementation for professionals.

Keywords:   Autonomic Regulation; Dysregulation; Favored Parent; High Conflict Divorce; Neuroception; Parent Child
            Contact Problems; Parental Alienation; Polyvagal Theory; Rejected Parent.





                                       L  A  FEELING OF SAFETY


    When   people   are consistently   stressed  by  abuse,  neglect,  fear, or deprivation,   bodily  systems
break  down   (Black,  2002).  Feelings  of hopelessness   and  helplessness  interfere with  problem   solving
abilities (Gotlib  &   Asarnow, 1979). Trauma, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and chronic stress



Corresponding: drbailey@transitioningfamilies.com


FAMILY  COURT  REVIEW,  Vol. 58 No. 2, April 2020 525-543
© 2020 Association of Family and Conciliation Courts

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