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15 J. Am. Acad. Matrimonial Law. 119 (1998)
The Psychological Effects of Relocation for Children of Divorce

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The Psychological Effects of
Relocation for Children of Divorce
by
Marion Gindes, Ph.D.t
I. Introduction
The divorce of parents significantly undermines their chil-
dren's sense of security and stability. The two people upon
whom the child is dependent are no longer equally accessible to
the child and the foundation of the child's world is splintered.
From the child's perspective, the best of all possible worlds,
after parental divorce, includes parents who are amicable, do not
display overt hostility, can communicate with each other about
the child, and live close enough to each other so that child can
have the same playmates when with either parent.1 These condi-
tions maximize the potential for the child developing strong, pos-
itive relationships with both parents as well as for both parents'
involvement in the child's school and extracurricular activities
and for frequent and regular contact with the nonresidential
parent.
When a residential or custodial parent, then, seeks to move
to a different geographic region, that best possible post-divorce
scenario for children is threatened. The wish to relocate poses
the most dramatic example of the conflicting needs and wishes of
parents and children and of the conflicting needs and wishes of
custodial and noncustodial parents. For the most part, children
do not wish to leave the environment in which they live nor do
they wish to leave their noncustodial parent, who also does not
want them to go. Parent and child relocation, which has become
a major problem facing mental health and legal professionals, is,
however, inevitable in a mobile society.
t Psychologist in private practice in New York City and Larchmont, New
York.
1 Michael E. Lamb et al, The Effects of Divorce and Custody Arrange-
ments on Children's Behavior, Development, and Adjustment, 35 FAM. & CON-
CILIATION CTS. REV. 393 (1997); Joan B. Kelly, The Best Interest of the Child: A
Concept in Search of Meaning, 35 FAM. & CONCILIATION Crs. REV. 377 (1997).

Vol. 15, 1998

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