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64 Alb. L. Rev. 905 (2000-2001)
Domestic Partnership, Civil Unions, or Marriage: One Size Does Not Fit All

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DOMESTIC PARTNERSHIP, CIVIL UNIONS, OR
MARRIAGE: ONE SIZE DOES NOT FIT ALL
Paula L. Ettelbrick*
Among this remarkable gathering of scholars, I'd like to talk to
you as a legal strategist and family advocate. And, I'd like to voice
my continued belief that the best course for family advocates to
pursue is that which recognizes the caring and committed
relationships of all families-not just those who wish to marry and
not just those that include lesbian and gay couples.
Not so long ago, the term gay or lesbian family was an
oxymoron-a legally impossible and functionally undesirable notion.
Lesbians and gay men did not fit into the world's understanding of
family. At the same time, the idea of family had not yet been
claimed by lesbians and gay men. Standing here now, it's difficult
for most of us to even remember those times given the virtual
revolution that has occurred in re-thinking and re-configuring the
basis for recognizing, or not, certain kinds of families.        It is
important to remind ourselves, particularly in a law school forum
like this, that social change doesn't just happen. It is a dynamic
process involving theory, strategy, advocacy, and the story of human
lives. It is the dynamic process of history in which we know that
nothing ever stays the same-even the role, function, and definition
of family. Despite the religious right's insistence on the existence of
the traditional family, from which far too many Americans have
* Paula Ettelbrick was introduced at the Symposium in the following way:
Our next speaker is Paula Ettelbrick who is a nationally known civil rights attorney and
also the Family Policy Director for the Policy Institute of the National Gay and Lesbian
Task Force, which is a national think tank. Throughout her career Paula has been
dedicated to developing legal strategies, alliances, and solutions for enhancing the
recognition of all families in the law and social systems. She's written and spoken a lot
about these issues and she teaches Sexuality and the Law as an adjunct professor at
New York University Law School, University of Michigan Law School, and Barnard
College.

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